Thoughts: Everyone is beautiful….get closer.

A beautiful thing - seeing folks as they are.
A beautiful thing – seeing folks as they are.

As you know, most monks see beauty in everyone, even folks who try to cover it up (can you imagine? hiding from your OWN beauty? or deny it, or do distracting things), or folks who say “Beauty is this, but it’s not that.”

Doesn’t work that way, and you know it.

From the description of this short 4 minute film, posted just last week & closing in on five million friends watching  it:

Disabled mannequins will be eliciting astonished looks from passers-by on Zurich’s Bahnhofstrasse today. Between the perfect mannequins, there will be figures with scoliosis or brittle bone disease modeling the latest fashions.

One will have shortened limbs; the other a malformed spine. The campaign has been devised for the International Day of Persons with Disabilities by Pro Infirmis, an organization for the disabled. Entitled “Because who is perfect? Get closer.”, it is designed to provoke reflection on the acceptance of people with disabilities. Director Alain Gsponer has captured the campaign as a short film.

Thoughts of peace: Police lay down their arms

The police removed their gear & disappeared, rather than attack the protesters....
The police removed their gear & disappeared, rather than attack the protesters….

Yesterday in Thailand, riot police yield to peaceful protesters by removing barricades AND their helmets in a shocking gesture of solidarity.

From the CBC report: “In a sharp reversal in strategy that followed two days of increasingly fierce street fighting, riot police lowered their shields and walked away from heavily fortified positions around Prime Minister Yingluck Shinawatra’s office at Government House.”

Here’s the whole CBC story.

Thoughts: The courage that gratitude requires….

Photo by Julie Daley from https://www.facebook.com/pages/Unabashedly-Female-with-Julie-Daley/174232675944899
Photo by Julie Daley from https://www.facebook.com/pages/Unabashedly-Female-with-Julie-Daley/174232675944899

One of the folks who hits it right on the head is also one of my favourite writers, Oriah Mountain Dreamer. She posted this little  essay on the courage it takes to be grateful, at times….

Oriah Mountain Dreamer
Oriah Mountain Dreamer

It takes a certain kind of courage to allow gratitude to arise within our hearts. We know that in an impermanent world, all that we love will change, is impermanent. To let ourselves love & be loved anyway, to feel & express our gratitude for lives we know are unpredictable means holding our fears about loss tenderly without letting them stifle our enthusiasm for life.

Of course, what feels like shrinking or expanding differs from person to person- we are the only one who can know for sure if we are shrinking our lives to accommodate our fears or finding the courage to let life expand within & around us.

~Oriah Mountain Dreamer

(c) 2013 https://www.facebook.com/Oriah.Mountain.Dreamer

Thoughts: Teach me

Happy Thanksgiving!
Happy Thanksgiving!

Earth, Teach Me

Earth teach me quiet ~ as the grasses are still with new light.
Earth teach me suffering ~ as old stones suffer with memory.
Earth teach me humility ~ as blossoms are humble with beginning.
Earth teach me caring ~ as mothers nurture their young.
Earth teach me courage ~ as the tree that stands alone.
Earth teach me limitation ~ as the ant that crawls on the ground.
Earth teach me freedom ~ as the eagle that soars in the sky.
Earth teach me acceptance ~ as the leaves that die each fall.
Earth teach me renewal ~ as the seed that rises in the spring.
Earth teach me to forget myself ~ as melted snow forgets its life.
Earth teach me to remember kindness ~ as dry fields weep with rain.

– Ute Prayer

Thoughts: Us & the ocean & us again

From the sea we come...photo by Ian Byington
From the sea we come…photo by Ian Byington

We were fish swimming in the ocean,
unaware of the water and ourselves.

The ocean wanted to be recognized,
so it threw us up on dry land.

We flip after this, we flop after that,
pursuing an ever more elusive happiness.

Is the ocean tormenting us?

Rumi

Healing & sharing: Time to give wings to our good wishes

Yolanda has come & gone, now you're invited.
Yolanda has come & gone, now you’re invited.

Just asked my dear friend Lolit in the Philippines what I could post, for my circle of folks who might want to help (from all over the world, so it’s a bit of a wide-spread circle)…she suggested this local (there) site, with lots of options (including good wishes & prayers) to give, to share, to heal…..and she keeps telling me folks there are pulling together to help one another, and are pretty fired up to get on top of this:

http://www.pricepanda.com.ph/blog/help-victims-of-typhoon-yolanda-haiyan-list-of-relief-centers-donations-drop-offs-banks-etc/

Thoughts: Francis & the embrace felt ’round the world

Last week, Pope Francis stepped out into a crowd & embraced a man with neurofibromatosis, which is pretty hard for most people to look at....
Last week, Pope Francis stepped out into a crowd & embraced a man with neurofibromatosis, which is pretty hard for most people to look at….

In the lore of monkish tales, most know the story of the original Francesco, who said that his conversion to a life of faith came along after he had embraced & kissed a leper.

This past week, the pope for our Roman Catholic friends echoed his thirteenth century namesake as a photo went viral ’round the world of him embracing a fellow with neurofibromatosis, a condition which has left him with tumors all over his body & face.

I love it when a good idea gets good press.

It’s tempting to look at the picture & say how cool the pope is for doing this. (And, it is cool.) It’s also tempting to leave the inspiration, the lesson & the discussion there.

But the more interesting question is: Have you kissed your leper today? What  or who is in your life that you shun, because you’ve decided they’re gross? Can you close your eyes to the tumors & open your heart to the warmth of someone whose healing begins with your touch?

Now that would be cool.

Love you & the way you do,
Brother Ian

Thoughts & writings: Liz Gilbert on Jack Gilbert: “We must risk delight.”

Liz Gilbert
Liz Gilbert

You know Liz Gilbert from her book Eat, Love, Pray.

You may know her from her wonderful TED talk about genius & how we ruin it (check it here.)

Here’s a new way to get to know her: She writes a wonderful piece in The Atlantic (published a couple of days ago, here) celebrating her memory of writer & poet Jack Gilbert (unrelated), who wrote of the way we can look for (and find!) what she calls a “stubborn gladness” in the reversals & difficulties we our everyday lives. She cites his lines:

We must risk delight. We can do without pleasure,
but not delight. Not enjoyment. We must have
the stubbornness to accept our gladness in the ruthless
furnace of this world.

And more. Here’s the essay. You’ll be glad where it leaves your heart. Thanks, Liz.