Thoughts: The day which begins with this, is brighter already

Today is the feast day of St Francis!
Lord, make me a channel of your peace.
That where there is hatred, I may bring love.
That where there is wrong, I may bring the spirit of forgiveness,
That where there is discord, I may bring harmony,
That where there is error, I may bring truth,
That where there is doubt, I may bring faith,
That where there is despair, I may bring hope,
That where there are shadows, I may bring light,
That where there is sadness, I may bring joy.
Lord, grant that I may seek rather to comfort, than to be comforted,
To understand than to be understood,
To love than to be loved.
For it is by forgetting self that one finds.
It is by forgiving that one is forgiven,
And it is by dying that one awakens to eternal life.
Amen.
According to Bob Holmes, *this is the version of the St Francis Prayer that Mother Teresa prayed.

Thoughts: Peace….

“Peaceful coexistence on this beautiful planet we share cannot be achieved by warfare. It cannot be achieved by power. And it cannot be achieved by ignoring each others’ suffering. We cannot kill our way to peace, oppress others to create to peace, or close our eyes to achieve peace.

“Peace is the only path to peace. Our humanity is indelibly linked to our treatment of one another.”
― L.R. Knost
Art by Isaac Murdoch

Thoughts: Empty time & your heart

You have been forced to enter empty time.
The desire that drove you has relinquished.
There is nothing else to do now but rest
And patiently learn to receive the self
You have forsaken for the race of days.

At first your thinking will darken
And sadness take over like listless weather.
The flow of unwept tears will frighten you.

You have traveled too fast over false ground;
Now your soul has come to take you back.
Take refuge in your senses, open up
To all the small miracles you rushed through.

Become inclined to watch the way of rain
When it falls slow and free.

Imitate the habit of twilight,
Taking time to open the well of color
That fostered the brightness of day.

Draw alongside the silence of stone
Until its calmness can claim you.
Be excessively gentle with yourself.

Stay clear of those vexed in spirit.
Learn to linger around someone of ease
Who feels they have all the time in the world.

Gradually, you will return to yourself,
Having learned a new respect for your heart
And the joy that dwells far within slow time.

~ John O’Donohue, “For One Who Is Exhausted, a Blessing.”
[Image: Konsta Punkka]

Every once in a while…

It actually doesn’t matter where you have been swimming, or where you’re going to, but it does better where you’re swimming right now. It is only when we identify what grows in this moment that we have the chance to live fully.

Before & after – this leads to growth in our heads. Now – this leads to growth in our hearts.

It is within this mode of operating that we can grow and grow and grow.We find this by living each moment fully. That creates moments that are more memorable & a future that is more attainable.

You just watch.

The flower – keep your eyes wide…

One day the Buddha held up a flower in front of an audience of 1,250 monks and nuns. He did not say anything for quite a long time. The audience was perfectly silent. Everyone seemed to be thinking hard, trying to see the meaning behind the Buddha’s gesture.

Then, suddenly, the Buddha smiled. He smiled because someone in the audience smiled at him and at the flower. The name of that monk was Mahakashyapa. He was the only person who smiled, and the Buddha smiled back and said, “I have a treasure of insight, and I have transmitted it to Mahakashyapa.”

That story has been discussed by many generations of Zen students, and people continue to look for its meaning. To me the meaning is quite simple. When someone holds up a flower and shows it to you, he wants you to see it. If you keep thinking, you miss the flower. The person who was not thinking, who was just himself, was able to encounter the flower in depth, and he smiled.

That is the problem of life. If we are not fully ourselves, truly in the present moment, we miss everything. When a child presents himself to you with his smile, if you are not really there—thinking about the future or the past, or preoccupied with other problems—then the child is not really there for you. The technique of being alive is to go back to yourself in order for the child to appear like a marvelous reality. Then you can see him smile and you can embrace him in your arms.

~ Thich Nhat Hanh

Writings: Works with improv, works with life…yes!

When you say yes, you keep the world alive! Photo by
When you say yes, you keep the world alive! Photo by Agoes Antara

In the old days, one of the cool jobs I was lucky enough to fall into was teaching drama at a junior high. We had a great time. One of the things we did was improvise scenes.

It was easy – we’d put two or three kids on the floor, give them a first line (something like “What do I do now?” or “Why, tell me why you had to do that!” or “You’re not the person I thought you were!” or something), and then say “Go!”

Then their job – everybody else’s – was to carry the scene forward with whatever came up. No rules (junior high kids LOVE that), no script, with a wide-open road as to where things might go. Usually it was fun – sometimes really funny (usually unintentionally), sometimes emotional, sometimes as mixed up as life. The part we were looking for: When you’re off-script, it’s a little scary, but often honest.

Every so often,  we’d get it going, maybe with saying, “What do I do now?” and…the kid would respond with, “I don’t know.” Then the first person would say, “OK,” and we’d be done. So then we’d use the same people and start it with, “Wow, you look funny!” and they might respond, “Oh, OK. Thanks for telling me.” And we were done.

We really didn’t want things to die there.

So then we had to make some rules for this no-rule lesson plan. Frankly, I don’t remember them, ’cause I used to, well, improvise. But I heard that Tina Fey (in this article) has these as her Improv Rules:

The Rules of Improvisation

Always Agree.
Say Yes, AND
After the “and” add new information.
Focus on the Here and Now.
Establish the location.
Be Specific, provide details.

Now that changes things. That makes you want to stay in the conversation, and see how it turns out. Part of improv comedy’s genius is the ability, even necessity, to say, “Yes! And…” even in the face of the strangest things. In real life, we just end the conversation & walk on.

Wait. Maybe we don’t have to create a “real life” like that. The more I think about it, I like the Rules of Improv. Good way to wrestle with the stuff that comes our way.

I have an early night, so I think maybe you & I will visit about this some more. Because that’s the way you are…I say something, and no matter what, you agree, so that you can say “Yes! And…” (not “Yes! But…”) and we take it from there. And that’s why it’s fun talking to you. I love it.

Love you & the way we make all this up, together.

Brother Ian

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See more of Agoes Antara’s awesome work.

Writings: Moving into the age of intuition, by Jessica Francis

As the vibration of this planet continues to accelerate, we are being called to awaken our intuitive nature. We are starting to clearly see how our own perception itself creates our outer reality and our life experience. And as we are moving from the age of information towards the age of intuition we are outgrowing the old paradigms of fear, anger, and separation. Flipping the script and discovering a high-vibrational perception which supports oneness, compassion, love, co-creation and joy. Have you ever noticed that you and I are living in a phase of transition? The more we learn how to feel our own personal vibration and work intentionally with energy, the more we can transform ourselves and our lives. To use our intuition is to step into this new time.

Intuition is the ability to acquire knowledge without factual proof, evidence or conscious reasoning, or without understanding how the knowledge was received. It means that our perception is shifting and the way we perceive life.

Intuition development
In the new perception, there is no past, present, and future. There is only the now. Intuitive guidance will not come through when you are projecting into the past or the future. Intuition comes when you are centered into the present moment. This inner knowing comes when the mind is clear and not distracted. With developing/remembering our intuitive nature is to tune into the present moment more and more. Our intuition grows with awareness, practice and spiritual growth.

We are all born intuitive
We all have been born with intuition. It is like an extra muscle that we are learning how to train. And is not a gift. It is inherent in us all. All human beings are intuitive beings. Just like we learn how to ride a bicycle, we can learn how to harness to power of our innate intuitive power. At one point in our lives we either develop our intuitive abilities or numbing down our intuitive voice by relying on the logical mind. Making decisions from logic rather from a heart based place.

Listen, trust and apply
Listen to and trust and apply your intuition in your daily life. As you become more conscious you become more capable of tuning into your intuition. You will learn how to differentiate between deep knowing and your mind chattering. You will have to learn how to see the difference between your logic mind and your intuitive heart. Your heart is also like a gateway to your higher self. Intuition never screams or demands, it comes with ease and grace. It never does any harm.

We learn through experience
Let’s do a fun exercise. Focus on a question you would like to know about yourself or a situation. Try to keep it as clear as possible, so that it will help you to receive the clearest answer. Bring yourself into this present moment by taking a few deep breaths and focus on your external surroundings. Close your eyes and start asking a question you would like to receive guidance on.

If you are interested in diving deeper into your intuitive nature. I developed a free 3-online training where you will be receiving 3 tools to awaken and train your intuitive abilities. Sign up for free here.

With all of my love from Ubud, Bali

Jessica Francis – Intuitive guidance for the Soul

The original posting (and Jessica’s work) is posted here:
http://www.littlerebelbuddha.com/moving-into-the-age-of-intuition/

Music: Make me an instrument of your peace….

Francesco, in action....
Francesco, in action….

This little prayer (known to monks, worldwide) is attributed by many to St. Francis, and is notable in that it doesn’t “ask for something;” instead it simply asks that we be allowed to channel peace to the people around us.

I’ve always thought it was a pretty robust expression of that little bit in the Lord’s Prayer that says, “Thy will be done.”

Which means we get out of the way & let it flow…and I love the job Sarah McLachlan does with her musical version of it, below.

Let it wash over you….

Prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.

Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

Amen.

Writings: Any way you look at it…

You have it. I have it. Most everyone you know has it.

It feels almost impossible to escape it. No matter what we see or develop feelings about, it ends up coloured by our old thoughts, our old wounds, our old successes.

Someone says, “Yay!” and we can’t echo the cheer, because we had a different experience.

Someone says, “I hate that!” about something we’re fond of.

And when we pat ourselves on the back because we have an open mind, because we see things clearly & others don’t, because we get it & they don’t…there’s a bit more.

See, everything we say comes from one place – our heart. And it’s great that each person’s heart is different from each other person’s heart. And whatever each of us sees & feels & knows is shaped by the life in front of us, the way we see it & feel it. There’s no way anyone else could see it exactly the same way.

And that’s beautiful. It’s our chance to share our angle on things with our friends, and sometimes with people who don’t have as good an angle.

It’s our chance to celebrate the people who see things differently (or not at all!) from us, because they have something to share, too. It gives us a chance of real understanding, while still learning to cherish the place we see life from as well.

And that’s the beginning of the chance to be kind.

Love to you all –
Brother Ian

Writings: Isn’t it hard to live in such an isolated place?

From the air: From False Bay to Mount Baker - with all the San Juan Islands in between! Taken just before sunset on March 8, 2015, while flying around the south end of San Juan Island. Photo by Chris Teren (http://terenphotography.com/)
From the air: From False Bay to Mount Baker – with all the San Juan Islands in between! Taken just before sunset on March 8, 2015, while flying around the south end of San Juan Island. Photo by Chris Teren (http://terenphotography.com/)

 

Couple of years ago, I ran into some visitors to Friday Harbor, around the time I was wrapping up living there for nearly twenty years, on San Juan Island. One was the nicest of people, and she said, “Isn’t it hard to live in such an isolated place?”

In our follow-up, I discovered that she got up each morning for an hour drive to San Francisco, went into her office each day where she worked until the ride home, and then watched TV till bedtime.

She discovered that I usually walked into town, saying howdy or swapping stories or sharing a hug, met my different clients at coffeeplaces and cafés, and then had soccer or basketball with the kids after school, and then something to eat at our place (with friends over) or at someone’s potluck. My kids and I didn’t have a TV, at least partly because I didn’t know when we would have had time to look at it.

So, all in all, it was a good question – I should ask her, “Isn’t it hard to live in such an isolated place?”

I love it that you share so much of the world with me. Now I gotta get down to the beach, before sunset. Wanna come?

Love you, in this light –
Brother Ian

 Be sure and check out Chris’ pictures – you’ll be glad you did!

Writings: Pity…not deep enough

Let your light so shine....
Let your light so shine….

From my friend Carmen:

Compassion is a far greater and nobler thing than pity.

Pity has its roots in fear and carries a sense of arrogance and condescension, sometimes even a smug feeling of “I’m glad it’s not me.”

As Stephen Levine says: “When your fear touches someone’s pain it becomes pity; when your love touches someone’s pain, it becomes compassion.”

To train in compassion is to know that all beings are the same and suffer in similar ways, to honour all those who suffer, and to know that you are neither separate from nor superior to anyone…

~Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, chapter 12