Writings: If you can’t say it to his face….

There are a lot of “supposed to’s” in daily modern life, don’t you think? It’s “supposed to” rain tomorrow, according to the rain-boss or someone, who reports to the weather channel folks…. You’re “supposed to” wear a tie to a wedding, according to the Tie Manufacturers of North America. On Mother’s Day, you’re “supposed to”…

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Writings: Take a chance & become the first follower…

You’ll remember a few months ago,  I shared with you the story of the shirtless dancer, the lone nut, who gains a first follower, who turns them into a leader (here’s the posting, with Derek Sivers.) It’s true…every leader needs a first follower. Without him or her, the movement gets stuck, immobile, paralyzed. I got…

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Writings: Write now.

There’s something waiting. That’s why it takes a moment to gather the pen & paper, to open the blank but expectant email page, to take the moment. We try to get it write & get it right & get it, right? You’ve had the words rolling ’round in your head, driven by your heart, and…

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Writings: Rilke, wide & timeless

I love the dark hours of my being. My mind deepens into them. There I can find, as in old letters, the days of my life, already lived, and held like a legend, and understood. Then the knowing comes: I can open to another life that’s wide and timeless. So I am sometimes like a…

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Writings: Water, with Takiya, with all of us

We drink it. And we make it poison. There’s a better way. In the same spirit, this little bit from Erin Brockovich has always dug deep with me. If the people that poison our well would also drink that water, things would change. Until that change, it’s easy – they’re killing our brothers & sisters.…

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Writing: Find yourself, in others….

Heard this story the other day…rings true: Once a group of 500 people were attending a seminar. Suddenly the speaker stopped and decided to do a group activity. He started giving each person a balloon. Each person was then asked to write their name on it using a marker pen. Then all the balloons were…

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